In the modern world, a significant share of communication with people we are interested in is occupied by correspondence on social networks or SMS. We discuss the weather, our problems and worries, everyday affairs and unexpected events... In this regard, a girl who communicates with a guy she likes very often thinks about what and how to write to a young man in order to once again please him and not spoil the relationship. For many couples, after regular correspondence, the real development of relationships even begins, so this method of communication is also important and helps to get closer to your loved one. It will be quite easy to achieve pleasant and productive correspondence if you follow the simple tips below on what you can and cannot write in correspondence with the guy you like.
How to chat with the guy you like
Communicating via correspondence with a young man you like is not as easy as it might seem at first glance. Women's anxiety is confusing and it is difficult to understand whether it is worth being frank, what it is better not to write about, and what, on the contrary, should be described to the guy in more detail. You shouldn’t give away all your secrets at once; guys certainly love mystery in a girl, so leave some of your habits and character traits for further communication between you. Let each of your correspondence little by little reveal something new to him, another highlight in you.
In a short-term relationship, you can start communication with abstract, generally accepted topics, such as:
- Weather;
- Past and upcoming events (football, concert, skating rink opening, etc.);
- Holidays, important events;
- Good mood, friends.
As your relationship deepens, the topics will become more varied and personal, you will begin to discuss intimate moments, family problems and even philosophical topics. Don’t be afraid of questions during correspondence - they are a great way to develop a topic and at the same time learn a lot of new things about a person. Questions are very helpful when your correspondence reaches a dead end and you need to change the topic in order to continue communicating with the guy you like. If during the correspondence you feel that the topic has gone in a bad direction and there is a risk of an argument, it is better to refer to urgent matters and continue communication another time. This will help maintain peace between you and not accumulate negative emotions.
What nice things to write to a guy to please him
During correspondence, you want to make sure that the guy has a pleasant impression of you and your conversation. Therefore, many girls wonder what nice things they can write to a young man. There are a lot of options here: you can start with the usual compliments of his new photo or post on a social network page. The guy will probably appreciate it if you praise his interests or speak approvingly of his tastes in music. The main thing is not to overdo it with compliments so that they do not look like outright flattery.
You can also write pleasant little things like wishes for a good day or good night. This is always relevant, and speaks of your attention to this young man, that you thought about him before going to bed or in the middle of the working day. No less relevant would be the option of writing openly to the guy what you think about him. This will certainly please him, because sometimes the simple words “I miss you and think about you” are much more important than compliments and conversations on abstract topics.
Unspoken rules of correspondence for girls
To interest a young man and make him like you during correspondence, you need to follow a few simple rules:
When corresponding with your loved one, be sure to use cute nicknames or affectionate words, with the help of which you will add personality to your message and emphasize that you wrote it with tenderness.
SMS should be such that a person always has something to answer. There is no need to write in monosyllables and in the same type, forcing the young man to guess what you wanted to say with this message. Guys have a hard time accepting these kinds of hints, so it’s better to communicate openly. But they take compliments in SMS very well, so you shouldn’t skimp on small praises.
Today it is no longer fashionable for a girl to be stupid, so try not to make mistakes so that your SMS, instead of falling into the heart of a gentleman, does not end up in the domain of humorous portals and forums. If you’re going to “make a mistake,” then make a big one! For example, you can send a message of the following nature: “Music, I kiss you! Thank you for caring so much about me.” Now we are waiting for a reaction. Even if it doesn’t follow because the young man is still in a stupor, after half an hour you need to “douse him with a bucket of cold water” and write: “Sorry, I wanted to send an SMS to my mother, but you’re in my address book next to me, and I I accidentally picked up your contact. I’m really uncomfortable.” The same thing can be said with your voice, you just need to rehearse the embarrassed intonation. If the guy expresses frustration, you can add: “Actually, you can be a real music guy too,” or something like that.
If you write serious SMS, then you need to wait for a response before sending the next message.
If the message does not arrive for a long time, there may be several reasons:
- The young man is out of reach;
- He is at a lecture at the university or at work, where he cannot be distracted by the phone;
- At the moment the guy is driving and physically cannot write anything in response.
Therefore, before you get offended, you need to soberly assess the situation. In the end, his phone may simply die. When you have waited for an answer, you need to evaluate the guy’s reaction to your message. If it is positive, then again wait time and make him nervous this time. Let him think that you are on the subway or at evening classes in the pool, if he is an optimist. And if not, then let him be jealous or worried, the greater the shock (positive) for him will be your next message of an affectionate nature.
How to write to a guy correctly in contact
There are no special rules for how and what you can write to a guy on VK. Your correspondence should not follow any standard pattern. You can start by discussing the events of the day and quietly move on to talking about the future of your relationship. It may be the other way around, when you want to chat all evening only about something frivolous and funny. Therefore, there is only one rule - be guided by the fact that it is convenient for the two of you to communicate on the chosen topic, and the conversation develops easily and naturally. Then he will give you two real pleasure.
When planning to write to a guy in contact, it is better to choose topics for communication that suit your own mood. But at the same time, you should not forget about the mood of the young man - if he has problems, then it is better to discuss them, and not try to joke and fool around a lot. Otherwise, the guy will think that you don’t care about his condition and the correspondence will develop into a quarrel with all the ensuing consequences.
When thinking about what a pleasure it is to write to your loved one in the morning, you should first at least approximately know his usual daily routine. So that it doesn’t happen that you write an SMS to a guy during his work planning meeting or vice versa, in the midst of his morning sleep. Of course, he won’t be offended, but this could throw him off track at work or cause problems with his superiors, who will not approve of correspondence during a meeting.
What exactly to write depends on the degree of your relationship. For the initial stages, when you are not yet too close to each other, cute SMS messages like “Good morning to the most beautiful boy” or “I wish you a morning as sunny as your smile” are suitable. For a closer relationship, you can add nicknames and cute addresses that are already familiar to you, or something more personal or intimate. You shouldn’t get by with banal messages - add creativity to them so that after your SMS the young man will probably smile. Short poems, humorous good morning wishes, and even photographs instead of text that will express your thoughts without words work well. The main thing is that these are not copied typical wishes from the Internet - they are very “blurred” and your boyfriend will probably think that it was difficult for you to write at least a few words from yourself and you decided to copy an SMS from the vastness of the World Wide Web.
Should I write SMS during the day if the guy (man) is busy with work?
Some girls are confused by the question of whether it is worth writing pleasant SMS during the day, when the guy may have work or personal matters. Sometimes such SMS, even in the midst of a working day, will come in handy; they help you to distract yourself for a minute, cheer up and lift your spirits. Therefore, if a girl does not write too often and actively when her man is busy with work, then there will be nothing wrong with such SMS.
Pleasant encouraging words to a man will be very good, especially if his working day promises to be hard and eventful. You can write that you believe in him and wish him an easy and productive day, or that you are looking forward to your meeting in the evening. It’s never too much to support, so don’t be shy to please him with your positive thoughts and faith in your beloved man.
Unexpected pleasant SMS are also good in the case when the guy does not work and the day is completely free. This way you can entertain him a little and brighten up everyday boredom. In any case, you will please him with your attention and remind him of yourself, strengthening your relationship with a touch of positivity.
Nice words for a guy for the night
Of course, nice good night messages that will tell your boyfriend that you have been thinking about him throughout the day or before going to bed will not be out of place. Pleasant words for the night can be either a wish for sound dreams, or simply a reminder of how dear your boyfriend is to you. Such SMS will be especially useful if the young man has had a hard day, or if your daytime communication did not go very well and you need to smooth out unpleasant emotions and restore peaceful relations between you.
It’s worth repeating – there’s no need to copy banal SMS messages from the Internet that everyone already knows. It’s better to spend a couple of minutes and write something from your heart, pleasant and individual.
Here are some suitable good night SMS options for a guy:
- “I’ve been thinking about you all day today and I hope that in a dream you will finally look at me and warm me with your warmth and care”;
- “May your dreams be as bright as your shining eyes, and as strong as my love for you!”;
- “Sleep well, dear, because tomorrow a difficult day awaits you! I am nearby, mentally and spiritually, and will always support you, even in the most difficult moments!”;
- “My sunny boy, my beloved man! Good night to you, and may you definitely dream about your girl in your dreams.”
How not to communicate with a guy on the Internet or via SMS
If you want to maintain a good relationship with the guy you like, it is important to adhere to some points, without which communication through correspondence can completely ruin your feelings. In correspondence via SMS or on social networks, you cannot talk only about yourself - it is important to show interest in your other half, be interested in his daily activities and hobbies. You shouldn’t get too carried away with ignoring messages from a young man - otherwise he will quickly lose interest in you, not feeling a sense of reciprocity of communication. Don’t burden him with your problems and be able to feel the mood of your interlocutor - sometimes it happens that even if you are in a bad state, you need to support your young man, whose problems are more serious than yours. It is important to be able to find a balance of topics for communication so that the correspondence is comfortable and interesting for the two of you.
Another important rule for correspondence with a guy you like is to not impose yourself on the young man excessively. If you constantly write SMS to a guy with offers to talk or meet, you keep asking where and with whom he is now, your relationship will most likely end soon. A man should feel that the girl is confident in him and trusts him, while respecting his personal time and space. These simple rules will help make your correspondence enjoyable and not spoil your relationship, but, on the contrary, develop and strengthen it.
It’s not for nothing that wise women constantly think about what to write to the guy they like. What should you say to a stranger to arouse his interest in you? How to hint to your loved one about your feelings?
There are many questions, but there are also many ways to say “I miss you”: short messages, cute poems, beautiful words. The main thing is to speak sincerely and from the bottom of your heart.
Some girls find it difficult to pronounce or write pleasant words to their loved one. The reasons for this behavior may be:
- difficult memories of childhood;
- strict parenting methods;
- experience of unsuccessful relationships.
All this is fraught with the emergence of psychological complexes that already require qualified help from specialists. Therefore, it is necessary to fight your reluctance to say beautiful words to your loved one. You will not only relax, but also please your soulmate.
Another common misconception concerns the notorious emotional coldness of the stronger sex. It is believed that a real man must be serious, not be distracted by various “nonsense” and not express his feelings publicly.
However, often behind the apparent indifference lies an open guy who is extremely pleased when his chosen one says beautiful words to him.
Don't turn your messages into flattering praises. Your loved one will not like it if you start writing about his non-existent advantages.
Therefore, you can and should speak sincerely, telling a man about why you fell in love with him and continue to love him.
You can say sweet words to both your loved one and the guy with whom you just recently started a warm correspondence. Moreover, communication on the Internet is more open, because you can express your deepest feelings.
It is unlikely that you will call your boyfriend a tiger cub in front of everyone, but it is very easy to do this in a message. So, what words does he, the best man in the world, expect from you?
Option number 1. Compliment external data
Yes, we often repeat that we value guys not for beauty, but for strength and reliability, but every man will be pleased if his chosen one finds him attractive. You can praise his appearance as a whole, but it’s better to admire some particular “detail” - long eyelashes, dimples on his cheeks or beautiful fingers.
Use words and phrases from the following list:
- “Dimples suit you”;
- “You have strong hands”;
- “You look like a pianist - the same long and beautiful fingers”;
- “Your new hairstyle suits you”;
- "You are very strong";
- “You have such a muscular figure”;
- “What sweet lips you have...”
Option number 2. A few words about talents
Every young person has some kind of gift or talent. And your young man is no exception.
Perhaps he sings beautifully, knows how to draw, drives a car great, or cooks scrambled eggs better than anyone else. Show your loved one that his abilities delight you. And even though he has heard about this a thousand times from strangers, you just need to say that you are proud of him.
So, what phrases about talents can you write in an SMS to a man:
- “You amazed me with this song”;
- “You managed to do the impossible! The roast was great";
- "Your poems make me cry."
Option number 3. Words of gratitude
You should always say “thank you” to your loved one, and it doesn’t matter at all whether he gave you a huge bouquet of flowers or let you go to work.
There is a certain pattern: the more often a man is praised, the more he tries.
Having heard rave reviews about his signature dish, the guy will certainly want to repeat his culinary masterpiece. And all for the sake of a few pleasant words from the woman you love.
The same applies to the sexual side of relationships. The man also needs to be thanked for a great night.
What to write to a guy? We offer the following options:
- “Darling, it was great! Thanks for a wonderful night. I hope you had as good a time as I did”;
- “Thank you for the most beautiful bouquet of flowers. You are very, very sweet";
- “I miss your morning coffee. Thank you for the hot and delicious start to the day.”
Option number 4. A few words about masculinity
You will never compare with your loved one in strength, so it is better to appear weak and defenseless than to demonstrate your independence. Emphasize his masculinity, courage and nobility. Men like messages that suggest they are exclusive and irreplaceable.
Send the following sweet SMS to your loved one:
- “With you I’m not afraid of anything”;
- “Next to you I feel absolutely calm”;
- "You are a real man".
Option number 5. “Pleasures” for the night
Goodnight messages should take into account the extent of your relationship. If you've only met a guy a couple of times, it might not be the best decision to write to him: “Lonely night... I wish I could be near you right now...” Why? There is a high probability that the young man will take this as a signal for a certain relationship.
Of course, if you want to turn him on and hint about a hotter meeting, this phrase is ideal.
If you are in a more serious relationship, but are now far away, do not forget to write a nice message to your guy for the night and tell him how much you need him: “I miss you terribly and I dream of falling asleep on your shoulder.”
You can also send some unobtrusive, funny poems that will serve as a kind of lullaby.
Option number 6. Cool poems
Do you want the young man to smile? Try writing a joke to the guy you like in SMS.
Cool poems, an anecdote, a compliment with a hint - all this will help reduce the distance between you, provide a good mood to your loved one and show your ability to communicate in a positive way.
A few important rules
If you want your registration to last as long as possible and end with a meeting and a serious relationship, follow a few simple, but at the same time effective rules.
- Write correctly. This is an extremely important condition in communication via instant messengers, social networks and SMS. Perhaps the young man will not say directly that your literacy is lame, but he may decide that you are not suitable for him. However, you should not point out spelling errors to the guy; he will not appreciate such frankness.
- Don't bother your beloved man. Messages like “Where did you go?” or “Don’t you like me?” You can only destroy the relationship. Firstly, the young man may be really busy, and your SMS will only infuriate him. Secondly, such obsession does not do honor to a decent girl.
- Write first if you like the guy. Some girls categorically do not want to write to the first man who caught her in a photo on a social network. But how will he understand that you like him? Look at his page, find common interests and write first, and if he doesn’t answer you, well, at least you won’t suffer anymore.
- Don’t call a man you don’t know well by diminutive nicknames. Words like “bunny”, “baby”, “sunny” are suitable for communicating only with a loved one. Agree that it is somewhat unexpected to receive the following phrase in your first SMS: “Hi, baby, I really like you.” It’s better to say a few nice words about his hobbies.
- Be sincere. What to write to a guy to make sure he knows your feelings? In fact, it doesn’t matter whether it’s poetry, gratitude in your own words, beautiful phrases from the Internet. The main thing is sincerity and moderation. We immediately discard rude flattery; we should also not praise for non-existent talents. Neutral options: “I am very glad that you are in my life,” “Thanks to you, I understood what love is,” “I miss you madly.”
A man is a rather romantic creature, although he wants to seem tough and even indifferent to us. Believe me, your loved one wants to hear words of approval, gratitude, etc. from you.
What to write to the guy you like? Write poetry for him! Brighten up his night with a message with beautiful words! Don’t be afraid of your desires, and then he will immediately move mountains for you.
Almost always, harmonious relationships between people of the opposite sex depend on the words that were spoken or written to each other. It's not just women who love to receive compliments and praise. It is also important for men to know that their labors are not in vain and that they are not indifferent to their beloved. Pleasant, affectionate words can help establish contact during a period of strained relationships, remove an unpleasant aftertaste after a quarrel or disagreement, and add romance and good mood to a couple’s everyday life.
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Who are the messages addressed to?
All girls have faced doubts and hesitations when writing a letter to a man or boyfriend. It is necessary to choose pleasant words by determining the status of the relationship:love, friendship or business. This division will help you choose the appropriate words, for example:
| To whom | For what | Example phrases |
| To my beloved guy | It is very important to let your beloved guy know that he is the best and most desirable. This will quickly warm up his feelings and give him confidence in his abilities. He will know for sure that all his attempts to win the heart of his chosen one are going in the right direction. Also in this way you can suggest what you would like from communication |
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| To my husband | It is advisable to write pleasant compliments to your husband regularly. This way you can constantly maintain interest and remain a desirable wife, who with her wisdom ensures harmony and stability in the family. The relationship between spouses who have been married for several years and are too immersed in everyday worries, compliments and romantic messages is especially refreshing. You should always leave room and time for flirting with your beloved, so as not to get bored of each other. The woman herself will be pleased when her inspired lover reciprocates |
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| To a friend | A reliable friend will be cheered up by positive compliments from a girl for whom he has friendly feelings. He will see that he cares and will value friendship more. He will understand that they communicate with him not because of self-interest, but because they understand his inner world. SMS of an intimate nature would be inappropriate here. You should choose a light, humorous writing style |
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| To an ex-man | It is better for an ex-man not to write, not to attract the past into his new life. But there are rare cases when couples break up without negativity and remain on good terms. In such a situation, you need to clearly indicate that the relationship is over, write messages without unnecessary words or flirting, but with humor |
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| To a stranger | The hardest thing is to find the words to write to a stranger you really like. It is still unknown what his character is, how he reacts to flirting and jokes, so it is better to start with compliments. Before writing anything, it is worth looking through his page on the Internet with photographs in order to roughly draw up a portrait of his personality. The comments to the photos will help you figure it out (compliments written by other girls) |
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You need to write in your own words, sincerely from the bottom of your heart. You can use funny or cute pictures and emoticons. There are many options, but you should avoid pretentious, twisted expressions. Men don’t like very sweet words, it annoys them.
Why do you need to write kind words?
The purpose for which a woman is going to write to a guy is important. But in each specific case, the character of the person must be taken into account. The style of writing phrases must be chosen taking into account the result you want to achieve.
There are several areas of emphasis:
| Target | Example phrases |
| To make a guy laugh, you don't have to use only jokes. He will definitely break into a smile if he receives praise and kind words addressed to him. In the text you can laugh at some ridiculous situation you’ve experienced together, attach a funny animation, etc. |
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| You always want your chosen one to love you even more. For this it is better to use gentle, romantic messages. |
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| If you need to write so that the guy answers immediately, then you should ask a question at the end of the sentence or provoke action |
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| Saying certain phrases to a guy to make him smile and melt will not be difficult if the relationship continues for a long time. Emphasis should be placed on how good he is, so that a man understands that he is the best for his soul mate. |
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The best way to convey that you love a guy is to be open and honest about your feelings.
Best time for romantic messages
A man will be very flattered to receive a pleasant message before bed. Psychologists say that warm words spoken before bedtime help you wake up in a cheerful state, fresh and filled with strength. Night is a special, intimate time when a person is in a calm state and more in tune with romance. A man will be able to fully concentrate on the text of the message, feel and immerse himself in pleasant thoughts. He will no longer be distracted by the daily bustle and problems. He is committed to relaxation and positive thoughts in a home environment.
An unexpected message in the morning will only please you and improve your mood. He will be even more interested in his girlfriend, and waking up in the morning will be especially pleasant. But the message should not be vulgar.
You can write in prose or poetry, use various wishes and compliments:
- “Good morning, beloved sun. Have a good day! »
- “I wish you pleasant dreams about me. May you dream of our romantic date in a marvelous, beautiful place.”
- “You're so cute when you're sleepy! I just want to hug you.”
- “Wake up, your favorite cat has already prepared a delicious breakfast.”
- “Good night, honey! I kiss you on both cheeks and wish you sweet dreams.”
Men have a romantic nature and love to listen to approval, love confessions and gratitude. A woman who skillfully uses pleasant words and regularly encourages her lover will always remain desirable to her soulmate.
Many people are looking for SMS messages to boyfriends today. Girls want to be original, witty and unexpected, and with the help of our website this can be easily achieved. Just go to the appropriate subsection and select the appropriate message.
SMS to a guy is a variety of texts on a variety of topics and suitable for a variety of situations. Here you can find cool text, erotic, serious or congratulatory, for example.
SMS can be useful if it is inconvenient to talk out loud, at a lecture, or in transport, or if there is simply no such opportunity because you are far from each other. For example.
Remember that attention is required not only by us women, but also by the stronger half of humanity: men, guys. And with the help of SMS messages made by our authors, you can be not only attentive, but also original, without repeating yourself, but kindly surprising your boyfriend with another unique opus.
I want to cuddle up to you and not let go, slide my hands along your back, gently kiss your neck. And I can feel your hot kiss on my body... And that’s it - we are alone, just the two of us.
Intimate SMS for a guy
How long have you been away, I miss you so much, I want to hug you, kiss you, feel your warmth. And gently drown in passion, and feel - we are one..
Funny SMS for your beloved guy
I kiss you on your nose, on your cheek, on your ear, on your shoulder and belly, on your eye and on your leg... Oh, I drooled a little.
Erotic SMS for guy
When I think about the way your tongue slides along my neck, I die. Resurrect me, I thirst for you! Hurry up, otherwise I’ll completely melt.
Sexy SMS for your beloved guy
I will hug you when I meet, let it be day or evening... I will kiss you and put you on the bed. I'll show you how much I love you!
Erotic SMS for a guy
My dream is to be next to you now, I will be on top this time. I will give all the passion and all the warmth, and we had a very good time together.
Sex SMS to your beloved guy
I want to press my body to yours, I want to press my lips to you. I so want a spark to slip between us now! Oops!
How to get a guy over text
Oh, my sweet one, I feel your mood. Your intermittent breathing, the hardening of your bodies under the clothes... The desire to throw everything off and love you all night. I so want to make love with you, come on, whatever it costs you...
SMS I want you to guy
The hand slides over your cheek, your fingers gently trace your lips - they remember your warmth, they remember the moans in which the two of us are. The body feels languid and burns in anticipation of you, God how sweet, how I want you!
Erotic good night sms for boyfriend
Night has come, I’m all in anticipation: I’m waiting for you, the touch of your lips. Embrace of arms and merging of bodies, do with me whatever you wanted.
SMS to a guy about sex
I’m at work, and my thoughts are with you: you caress my breasts, caress my flesh. The body is in ecstasy, it begins to beat, I fly away, I lose reality...
Good night sms for boyfriend
I want you to dream a beautiful fairy tale this night. I will be in it too, and with me - tenderness and affection. Good night.
Erotic SMS for a guy
Feel my breathing, the passionate beating of my heart - it wants to feel your body, it wants all of you...
Erotic SMS to your beloved guy
I long to meet you, I long for your hands and sweet lips, come to me, my dear friend.
SMS hello to guy
Hello my sweetie. How are you. So I’m trying to solve one riddle - when will I see you!?!
Sexual SMS for a guy
You're so close, your body is driving me crazy. You call me your pussy, I’m going crazy - I give you permission to do everything: take me quickly, quickly.
Erotic SMS for a guy for the night
I close my eyes and imagine us in a dance of passion. Let me into your dream too, we will make love together in it.
SMS I miss my guy
I miss you very much, I value you very much, I always remember you and send you SMS with love!
How to excite a guy via SMS
I'm naked, see? A hand slides across the chest, then lower and lower. Ah, the forbidden fruit is sweet, it is very juicy, I know you will arrive earlier, you will not last until nightfall.
Seducing a guy via SMS
I look at your photo and undress in front of him, take off my blouse, gently stroke my leg and the photo melts, look what’s wrong with him.. And you wouldn’t be excited!!!
Erotic SMS for a guy
I want to be yours today, I want to experience all the delights of love. Be my passion today, love me, love...
Short SMS good night to boyfriend
Good night! I really want to see you tomorrow!
Good night SMS poems for boyfriend
The day has passed, night has come. Who can help us? We will be helped by an SMS that will carry a kiss through the mountains and forest! I wish you a kiss and good night!
Relationships between a guy and a girl are always built according to a rather individual scheme. At the initial stage, when lovers have gotten to know each other well enough, it can be quite difficult to move on to intimate relationships for various reasons. Despite the fact that modern youth considers sex an integral part of a love relationship, some couples simply do not know how to do it.
In the case when the initiative comes from a woman due to the fact that the guy, due to his nature, is shy and does not dare to take the first step, the girl may have a natural question, how to tell the guy that I want him? At first glance, such a question may seem ridiculous, but difficulties of an intimate nature can become the main reason for the breakup of a couple in love.
How to hint to a guy that I want him
An intimate question may arise after the third date. Due to indecision, a guy can pretend for a long time that he does not understand his beloved’s hints, or really not notice them. Forcing events so that the guy is ripe for decisive action is not the best way in this case. The most correct thing would be to show restraint and, with the help of female seduction and cunning, push your loved one into intimacy.
In order to correctly approach this situation, a woman will need to take a number of steps:
- A girl should carefully study her partner. Getting to know his friends will help you get a more complete picture of your loved one’s character and habits.
- Once the information is received, it must be well systematized and used with extreme caution. Sudden changes in a woman’s behavior can shock a man, which will lead to the opposite result.
- Once a girl understands which female image is most attractive to her partner, she can use this to her advantage. An intriguing change in the behavior of his beloved will certainly contribute to the fact that the long-awaited spark of passion will appear in the man and he will finally understand the girl’s desire to “be only with you.”
- At the fourth stage, the girl must make it clear to the indecisive guy that intimacy is a very important period in a love relationship. Realizing this, the guy will inevitably give in and take the initiative himself.
Perhaps from the outside such actions may seem quite complicated and drawn-out. It's much easier to meet your boyfriend in a pleasant environment and talk to him about your intentions. However, such actions do not always lead to the expected result. Therefore, so that the guy does not think that his beloved has a too loose demeanor, the most correct thing would be to do everything gradually.
Ways to show women's interest
In order for the hints sent to reach their goal, it is necessary to choose a suitable place and time. Pleasant music, twilight and the absence of strangers will help ensure that the partner reacts correctly to the actions of his beloved.
A woman can hint about her readiness for intimacy in various ways:
- A girl can tell about her desire with her eyes. It is unlikely that an alluring and passionate look will leave a man indifferent. However, you should not obsessively drill and hypnotize your partner with your eyes. This behavior can cause greater embarrassment and result in the goal not being achieved. During eye contact, the girl must mentally say the phrase “look at me, I want you.”
- You can show your desire through flirting. A girl in the image of an affectionate and gentle cat has every chance of counting on reciprocity. You can also enhance the impression with pleasant compliments. Men, no less than women, love to hear pleasant words addressed to them.
- You can influence a guy using your voice and certain poses. When talking with your loved one, it is advisable not to go into high notes. A pleasant word whispered into your ear has a certain effect. You can strengthen the hint that you want him with flirtatious behavior. For example, during a conversation, play with a pendant in the neckline area or casually touch his hand. During a conversation, you can sit closer to him and, at every convenient opportunity, pat your loved one on the shoulder or remove invisible specks of dust from his clothes.
- When deciding how to make a man understand your desire, you can use hint tactics. For example, offer to spend an evening together and at the same time hint that there will be no one else but you. You can simply ask the guy what he would do if he were offered to spend the night with a nice girl.
In order to achieve a certain effect, you need to hint at intimacy very carefully. A man must make sure that he correctly understands that the lady wants him. Too intrusive seduction can frighten an indecisive partner and everything will have to start all over again.
If the hint is not understood
If it seems to a girl that her lover is not responding to her hints, then she can take decisive action and tell her directly about her desire. Perhaps her beloved has long understood what his other half wants from him, but due to his character he cannot decide to take a serious step. On the other hand, there are cases when a guy simply doesn’t like a girl and, in order not to offend her, he maintains a certain distance. A frank conversation is just such an opportunity to find out whether sympathy is mutual.
If, after watching the guy, the girl realized that their feelings are mutual, then she needs to inform her loved one about her intentions in the most suitable environment. For example, you can start an intimate conversation in a car, on a walk or in a cozy cafe.
Virtual correspondence
It is much easier to talk about your feelings and desires by correspondence. You can write to a guy about intimacy not directly, but between the lines. Unobtrusively, with the help of flirting, you need to bring your lover to discuss a frank topic, making it clear that the time has come for a closer relationship. The question of how to write to a man about your secret desire is quite difficult for many women. Not every girl is ready to take on the role of initiator of sexual relations. Therefore, when conducting frank correspondence, you need to make sure that it is the man who takes the first step.
Due to the fact that a significant part of modern youth spends a lot of time on social networks, a girl can arouse desire in a guy with the help of a candid photo. This rather bold method is very effective. The sent image will perfectly convey the woman’s desire without words.
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Hot words: what to say to a man to turn him on one hundred percent
Is your bed completely calm? It's time to stir up the love waters! How? Sometimes it's enough to say just a few words... How to excite a guy with words?
7 ways to excite a guy with words
1. If you want sex, don’t be silent! Men are specific people. If you wait for your loved one to understand everything himself, you will fall asleep in your own interests. And there is no one to be offended by but yourself. Your husband sees that you are upset about something, but you don’t want to talk about it. So, it’s better to leave you alone - let the girl sleep.
2. Demand, don’t ask “Darling, can we go to the bedroom?..” Do you think this sounds very inviting? Yes, if you want to seduce someone who is already burning with passion. But in order to get a husband who has been with you a million times in this very bedroom, it is better to say more harshly: “I want you!” This is how you challenge a man and spur his hunter instinct.
Fotolia 3. Find the string “You are driving me crazy”, “I am ready to give myself to you right now.” It doesn't matter what you babble. The main thing is that your words hit the target. You see that a man is getting excited - continue in the same spirit. Remained unexcited? Change your vocabulary!
4. Praise your man more “You are a wonderful lover!” What is there! Say he's a giant! In bed, a man must be praised and even over-praising is not forbidden. This is the very place where even rude flattery can easily be disguised as words of gratitude - you can’t undermine it! And it’s unlikely that anyone will try.
Read also: Sex without commitment: pros and cons
Fotolia 5. Don’t hide your desires. Do you want oral sex? Use your words or actions to point your man in the right direction - don't act like a prude. If you hide your desires, then sex will not bring complete satisfaction.
6. Avoid babying Men often behave like children. But in bed, your husband is a male, not a helpless child. So forget phrases like: “Oh, you’re so cute.” Don’t even think about blurting out “small” - his potency will not forgive you for this!
Shutterstock 7. Spill out your emotions! Bend, moan, scream - don't hold back! You can even scratch yourself, just be careful. Let your loved one see what pleasure he gives you. And next time he will no longer wait for an invitation - he will drag you to bed himself.
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Phrases and words that excite men
How to excite a man with words and phrases?
It’s not very difficult if you want to awaken the desire. It is? Read - words and phrases filled with letter magic that excite men:
- I'm yours, honey...
- Take me!
- I want you….
- Touch me without stopping.
- Take me, my love, I beg you...
- Feel my scent...
- Undress me with your eyes!
- Come inside me deeper...
- I love you until I completely lose consciousness...
- My body burns with fire from you....
- What are you thinking about now, honey?..
- I feel such a gentle shiver from you...
- I dream of feeling you inside me...
- I love your whole body!
- You turn me on so much...
A man is turned on by his own name
When a woman begins to whisper it..., - with love. It is better to use the diminutive declension of the name.
Adjectives such as these excite a man very much:
- "desired",
- "the only one",
- "affectionate"
- "chic".
Call him beloved. Do it unusually, melodiously, passionately, not forgetting about tenderness.
Repeat: “more, more...”. If only you knew how exciting such repetition is! The man is pleasantly shocked by these words. Do not forget to leave maximum sincerity in these words.
Any words will sound exciting if you catch the right moment, if you choose the right environment.
Now - more about this.
Places to say exciting words
In addition to standard places filled with romanticism, a man is very excited by those places in which there is a lot of extremeness. In a car, in an elevator, in a hallway, in a toilet, in a hotel, outdoors, in a restaurant. And that's not all the places! Shower room, bathroom, swimming pool – these are no less extreme places.
Choose a moment when a man’s eyes will sparkle and shine, when you feel that he is ready to give his whole life for you. This is where he came in! What a hit! You can act without missing a beat.
Say intimate compliments to a man to excite him
- Yours is so beautiful...
- You have such a perfect body...
- You have such great skin...
- There is so much desired in your body parts...
- There is so much fire in your passion!
Very exciting for a man
Words and phrases that are accompanied by “rapid” breathing and sighs. If there are slight moans, the man generally goes crazy with excitement! Try to regulate this somehow, but make sure that everything is as natural as possible. If a woman is pretending, a man will feel it!
What can ruin everything:
Try not to talk about something abstract, even though it may seem important to you. Here silence is more “on topic”!
If things finally become intimate, refrain from joking, thinking about something secret. Humor can wait.
You speak, whisper something to him, and then... Some noise! It’s not clear where it’s coming from, but it’s unbearably annoying. Try to predict this by eliminating it in advance.
He felt the urge, at the wrong time, to go to the toilet. You would suffer for him. But the man will not tolerate it. Naturally, you will then lose the desire to say anything to him when he returns.
Turn off your cell phones so they don't become an unpleasant surprise. Let them rest while you enjoy each other.
It’s better not to turn it off, because anything can happen. But you choose the time when someone’s visit is the minimum chance. Force majeure events are not taken into account. What if someone stumbles into the wrong door (drunk, or by mistake).
- Clothes with "intricacies"
While he is undressing you, he will get tired, confused, and freak out. Choose erotic clothes, but “understandable” ones for your man. Otherwise it will be torn by your loved one. Torn by passion! Has it turned you on yet?
Clean the room so that you don’t stumble upon anything when he kisses you and you whisper the most tender words in response. Otherwise you turn on the TV accidentally. You don't need him. He is the third!
Make the man forget about everything! Even about your favorite football, hockey, basketball. Your words are more important. And don’t think about the stereotype that sports are more valuable to a man than anything else.
Close the door to the room you are in. Otherwise your favorite cat will come running to you, jump between you and you will be scared and forget all the words. There is no need to waste the romance of the moment so ridiculously!
Words from women about words for men:
If he loves you, he will get aroused!
Kira: “If he loves, he will be aroused by any word spoken while looking into a man’s eyes. Personally, I have already checked this, because I was also worried about this question.”
Password - “I want you”
Olga: “One word “I want” is enough! There is no need to say anything more. Of course, you can say something else if you want. But the word “want” is the most powerful word.”
My beloved “drags” from touch
Ekaterina: “Words don’t excite my man at all. He responds more to touch than to “verbal language.” I'm happy about that too! As soon as you touch it, it flies away.”
It could be simpler
Caroline: “Men are turned on by banalities and vulgarities. I use this often. It’s wrong that I approach everything so without originality. But, it seems to me, a man doesn’t care what methods women use to excite him. The main thing is the result!”
Love
Svetlana: “All words excite a man if he loves. If not, no matter how you try, nothing will work. Everything is simple. Need love. She constantly “settles” everything without words. But not everyone appreciates love, because they put intimacy first. Men especially. For example, I value declarations of love much more than confessions that my beloved wants me. My friends too. Maybe we, being so non-standard, should move to another planet? Although it’s not a fact that there will be complete order with all this!”
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How to attract a man at a distance via SMS correspondence so that he gets excited? Words and phrases that turn on and excite guys, men in poetry and prose
We write exciting SMS for all occasions. Lots of templates for erotic SMS calling to action.
Finding the man you love is difficult, but maintaining a passionate relationship with him for decades is even more difficult. Precisely to preserve the relationship. Neither hold back nor return, but let the fire of love burn for decades! With the harsh trends of our time, this seems impossible, because someone said, and we have already convinced ourselves, about some crises, the terms in which love lives, etc. If this is so, then how did our great-grandmothers get married in their early youth and live with their beloved husband until their last breath?
How did they ensure that their husbands, being in old age, looked at them with the same passion in their eyes?
How to attract a man at a distance via SMS correspondence so that he gets excited? Golden Rule. If you want a man to love you, go into his brain, not his pants. Yes, yes, it was with their brains that men loved thousands of years ago and continue to love today. Momentary passion, as quickly as it finds itself, passes away so quickly. But we want something different?
In this article we propose to start the intrigue. To attract a man from a distance, take over his thoughts and have unbridled passion when you meet.
LIKE THE IDEA? THEN LET'S START!
What should and should not be written to a man?
No matter what kind of man he is, he absolutely loves it when a woman changes. Memorize this like a multiplication table. As soon as you stop changing, you will be replaced.
And let him live side by side, let him remain faithful to you, images of other women will live in his head. We won’t allow this, will we?
What you should and should not write to a man Change your writing styles. Today you are a romantic fairy, and tomorrow you are an insidious little thing. Read love messages from both contemporaries and creative personalities of the past. Yes, they used to write on paper, now using a touchscreen, but the essence of the transmitted information remains. Remember, vulgarity does not always excite, sometimes very chaste speeches are started, but with the right presentation.
And learn to present a whole art that is worth learning.
Never discuss your correspondence with anyone other than your man. It's too personal.
Never write something you are not ready to implement. Never write about “acting”, stage persona, etc. if you are not ready/cannot meet your man in it.
Deceive him once and you will never be able to attract his attention to you again (we, of course, do not take into account force majeure circumstances in the form of a flood, earthquake and the unexpected appearance of distant relatives on the doorstep of the apartment).
A man can also be aroused by the phrase “shoe cabinet” if you recently had passionate sex on it. One lady had a crazy “lunch” during which the gearshift knob in her car was damaged.
Years have passed, but as soon as she utters this phrase, her man laughs, but becomes insanely passionate...
What words and phrases turn on and excite men? In order to understand what to push, you need to know what your man likes. What outfit, style, what part of the wardrobe excites, etc. But don't overdo it. For example, if a man is crazy about high-heeled shoes, a photo of his feet in shoes and a text message “they are waiting for you” can drive a man crazy, but only for the first time.
Send 10 SUCH SMS and you will not see any reaction... (remember the rule about constant changes).
A man is also aroused by the idea that his body is powerful and desirable. Write about what you want to do for him (caresses, touches and even admire his parts of the body), write about what drives you crazy (again, lies are not welcome, but no one has canceled flattery).
Be tricky, play, enjoy being a woman! “Depraved” from the lips of a loved one sounds like a compliment!
Be tricky, play, enjoy being a woman Affectionate and exciting words for SMS to men in verse and in your own words
As we have already said, there are many phrases and phrases that seem to have nothing to do with intimacy. But they are great incentives for sex.
Remember the date on which you had sex for the first time, and specifically what the background to sex was. The meeting place, how he hugged, what he gave on that day, etc.
For example, he hugged me from the back, kissed my neck, and that was the beginning. Write him an SMS: “I’m now thinking about how you tenderly hugged me for the first time...”. And this will be enough to get you on the same page.
Men, like women, love affection and kind words. Don't think that your man is an exception. SMS: “Your tender lips are the best morning gift”, “Your hands are strong, but such soft hugs” and in this spirit will give not only passion, but also a deep feeling of affection.
In addition to SMS, let us remind you that no one canceled mini-notes.
Especially if you are packing him food, things for training, or anything else with you. A sweet message will give him a great mood and a desire to quickly return to bed with his beloved.
love poems 
Teasing verses 
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Beautiful erotic poems Regarding poetry, they are wonderful, but if you don’t write them yourself, don’t rely on them, no matter how much you love to read rhyme. But for variety they are also necessary. Below we present several options, but the exciting rhymes are so numerous that they can be collected in multi-volume books.
Erotic SMS that excites a man or guy at a distance: text
In this section we provide a whole series of examples for writing erotic SMS, but remember - they are for inspiration and nothing more! If your man decides to respond with a reciprocal SMS and starts searching the Internet for erotic SMS, after which he comes across one that his girlfriend seemingly sincerely wrote... this will mean the failure of the operation. But we don’t want this?
Sexual SMS to excite a man, guy
Continuing the theme, we propose to add playful sexual SMS, the purpose of which is liberation. And not only men, but also you.
Offer to play a game in SMS, create a sexual quest (answers an intimate question correctly - receives the reward indicated in the SMS). So, the first SMS is a question, the second SMS is a reward and we are waiting for the correct answer!
Sexual SMS It is also impossible to imagine a vibrant sex life without knowledge in this area. Look for interesting facts, ancient rituals, historical figures associated with sex, unusual names for seemingly familiar positions and write playful SMS.
For example: "We're going to the rodeo tonight." If you just started dating, he will remain perplexed. But if this is not the first time he has been on a quest, he will buy a cowboy hat on the way home, and at work he will be distracted by searching “rodeo” poses on Google.
In the age of the Internet, our SMS can contain not only text, but also photos... intimate photos! Upskirt photos in the office, deep cleavage against the backdrop of the street, and for the most daring, the absence of underwear in a public place. But remember, no underwear only works if it's shocking and exciting.
If your man knows that lingerie is not your wardrobe item, it is unlikely to make the right impression.
Intimate stimulating SMS for a man Pleasant, exciting SMS for a guy when he’s at work
So, we already know that it is not always worthwhile to behave vulgarly. Sometimes it excites pleasantness, understanding and the most tender love. Write to your loved one:
- I love (and part of the body, action, character trait)
- You are the most (wonderful, amazing, kind) in the world!
- You will succeed, because we are together!
- I saw... and remembered how wonderful you are to me!
- Thank you for having me
- I miss you, I'm waiting...
- We have a surprise today
- I was pleased what you did for me
- I need you forever!
- This city needs a hero - this city needs you!
Are you spending the night in different places today? Don't miss this wonderful opportunity! After all, it is in separation that true feeling is learned.
Exciting good night SMS for a guy, a man - good night wishes in your own words Write him touching SMS:
- Without you the bed is completely cold...
- My legs ache without your caresses...
- Start with “Do you want me to tell you a secret?” and this will definitely turn into sexual correspondence!
- Sweet and depraved dreams to you!
- Sweet dreams, I want to see you and me in my dream..
How to arouse a man through SMS?
Believe me, the most serious man can be knocked out with just one SMS, but! If your man’s work involves concentration, choose the time for such SMS while finishing work and on the way home, at lunch, or in the morning.
If your man is reading a report and your life in the next few years depends on it, you shouldn’t knock him down with the most ardent SMS.
How to really excite a man via SMS But remember, for a strong effect you need not just a call to action, you need aggression on your part. For example, “Go into your office, I’m already there and I’m only wearing a fur coat,” “Your slave is waiting in the back seat: will you dress her or spank her,” or “Look in the pocket of your jacket, but not in a public place,” and there are pre-inserted fishnet panties . Etc.
How to excite a man by correspondence: examples of SMS
Writing one SMS is a mine that can remain intact or cause an explosion.
Or rather passion. Below we present passionate SMS exchanges that will definitely inspire you to great deeds!
How to excite a man by correspondence: examples of SMS How to excite a man by correspondence: examples of SMS 
How to excite a man by correspondence: and a little fun Rhyme, and even humor, will never go out of fashion. We suggest not to miss the opportunity and pamper your beloved man with exciting and teasing SMS.
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