Have you sometimes noticed that as soon as we wanted something, but so strongly that this feeling passionately and completely took over our consciousness, how this desire was fulfilled? “Coincidence! Accident!”, many may say. And they will be wrong. Did you know that man is nature's most perfect magnet? What we think and hope for is inevitably attracted to us. This is ingenious, like everything simple, and lies in the power of attraction. No matter what you would like to receive, a new dress, a gas boiler or a car with a convertible roof, you need to fully concentrate on it.
Your consciousness will send the “necessary” waves into the world, “heard” by the universe, and it, in turn, will react to them, attracting these things to you.
A mistake that many people make people who dream about something is that they are more think about what, on the contrary, they don’t want.
For example, they don’t want to get sick, they don’t want to lose interest from their loved one, they don’t want to stand in line, etc. It is not right. Thinking about the bad, we attract only negativity to ourselves.
Perhaps you yourself sometimes notice that the more and more strongly one of your friends complains about something, the more troubles happen to him, which he will continue to complain about in the future.
Moreover, the brighter and stronger his feelings and emotions, the faster all negative events happen in his life! Anyone who is carried away by listing his illnesses will never get rid of them.
One who speaks of luck and prosperity and is in a state of happiness.
American psychologists, who were the first to discover the law of wish fulfillment, claim that it means following certain rules that help you focus on what you want.
So:
- Make a mental list of all the things that usually irritate you and make you want to complain. Write it down in the form of a list: the wife does not understand, the house is not repaired, the salary is not enough, etc.;
- reformulate these phrases into positive intentions: my wife and I understand each other perfectly, I am doing expensive renovations in the house and installing a shower stall, heated floors, I have an excellent salary that allows me to go on vacation to Turkey and buy a car”;
- The Universe must receive a specific message from you. For example, if you ask to send more money, don’t be surprised if your salary is increased by a couple of rubles. Or, if you ask to meet the man of your dreams, it is likely that he will just come into your office for a minute or even turn out to be married;
- if your list includes mutually exclusive desires, for example, to have a strong family and a dizzying career, the stronger of them will definitely come true;
- You shouldn’t order the Universe exactly how your wishes should come true. Your task is to correctly formulate requests. If you want jewelry, don't think like this:
“If I earn this amount of money, I’ll buy a bracelet”. Maybe you will receive it as a gift, perhaps you will receive an inheritance and buy the desired item yourself;
Now - the most important thing. Banish limiting fears, beliefs and doubts. Your wish may not come true only because you don’t believe in it:
“At my age, it’s too late to change my profession (job)”, “How can someone like me?” etc.
Such thoughts are a complete negation of all the good things that could happen to you;
- Imagine as often as possible that your wish has come true. At the same time, fully concentrate on your feelings. The rustle of blossoming peaches in the garden of your new home, the smell of a leather car interior, the soft reflection of diamonds in your ears... At the same time, you should experience dizzying happiness! Dissolve in it! Taste! Enjoy and tremble with delight! This is a prerequisite;
- To fulfill your desire faster, take steps towards it. Immerse yourself completely in a topic that interests you. If you dream of having a “complete” workshop, take an interest in what modern companies offer welding equipment or electric drills.
If you are raving about a new car, go to car dealerships, clearly imagining that this elegant Mazda will soon be in your garage; if you want a house, study real estate prices, etc.
- Everyone sees the process of fulfilling desires differently. For some it is magic, for others it is positive self-programming. Wish, dream and firmly believe in it! Life is built on the same laws. Help your mind grasp the necessary information, direct all your attention to it. This is the principle of the secret of fulfilling desires.
Copyright © 2010 Balezin Dmitry
Our life is what we think... There are probably no people who do not understand the importance of positive thinking, the power of thought and words and their meaning, while many continue to stubbornly “think up” and “tell” themselves troubles and sorrows.
This happens because people do not know how to control their mental flow and do not monitor their own speech, not to mention their actions.
Yes, for a beginner it may seem extremely difficult to keep track of what you are thinking about and control your own thoughts all the time! And ideally, try to think less in general - in order to be led by your Spirit!
For a magician (sorceress - witch, witch) to control their own thoughts and words is vital, because their words and thoughts are the law for the universe! We thought too emotionally - it immediately manifested itself!
The ability to control your own thoughts is a manifestation of inner strength! And the more it is, the higher the responsibility for your life and the lives of others.
At the same time, there are more opportunities to get what you really want in this life! If you wanted it, you got it! You just have to want it - and it immediately manifests itself!
Once again I want to note that when you think “mindlessly” about anything, it also manifests itself, whether you want it or not.
However, there is one way to start thinking positively and get the changes you want in life - affirmations!
“Affirmations are (from lat. affirmatio- confirmation) - a short phrase containinga verbal formula that, when repeated many times, reinforces the required image or attitude in a person’s subconscious, helping to improve his psycho-emotional background and stimulating positive changes.”, - the definition of the concept is taken from Wikipedia and quite succinctly explains the essence of the term.
I explain how to use this to get what you want:
If you do not know how to control and track the flow of your own thoughts (and this is necessary, since they form your reality), hammer affirmations into yourself.
- Formulate your positive attitude, that is, what you want to receive.
- Repeat this phrase constantly without thinking about anything... That is, you should focus on repeating it - nothing else is needed. Its repetition is especially important when you have noticed that you are thinking about something bad.
- Switch your attention to your setup and start repeating it as much as you can until you get tired. It is believed that the most harmonious is to repeat the affirmation in a number that is a multiple of three: 3, 6, 9, 12, etc. In general, the more, the better - ideally all the time!
- It is better to repeat affirmations 1 or 2 times, no more.
- Repeat what is most relevant to you at the moment.
- You can also make yourself a repetition schedule and repeat the installation according to the schedule. For example, 10 times in the morning, as soon as you wake up, and the same amount before bed. Make a schedule that is convenient for you.
- An affirmation should give rise to positive emotions, joy and passion.
Each time you begin to repeat the installation, a positive program will begin to form in your subconscious.
If you want a very quick result, you need to learn how to experience strong positive emotions (preferably visualizing what you want) - then the program for making your desires come true will work much faster - this is practical magic.
You need to practice affirmations constantly if you want to constantly get what you want!
Here is a list of sample affirmations. You can use them, although it's best to come up with your own.
WEALTH
My financial condition (the financial condition of my family) is getting better every day
Money flows to me easily from all sides;
I always have money;
I am very attractive for money;
I give and receive money easily and joyfully.
I attract money like a magnet.
My clients (employers) pay me generously.
Cosmic abundance manifests itself in the flow of money in my life
I'm worth a lot.
FAME AND SUCCESS
I'm doing well;
I am always successful!
All my plans are being realized;
I love and respect myself and my talents;
People look at me with delight and admiration;
I deserve all the best in this world and I gladly accept it.
LOVE AND MARRIAGE
I have the most wonderful partner in the world;
Everyone loves and adores me;
I love myself and approve of all my actions;
I trust my partner;
The more love I give, the more I receive;
I create a beautiful loving world within myself and spread my love to the whole world.
CHILDREN AND CREATIVITY
I create freely and joyfully;
My children are my best friends;
I have a wonderful, harmonious relationship with my children;
I love and support the child in me.
ASSISTANTS AND TRAVEL
I receive help and support from everywhere and from everyone;
People always help me;
I am always safe when traveling and everyone who is with me;
During my travels I meet many friends and helpers;
I always feel help and support from my friends.
CAREER AND LIFE PATH
Everything in my life is wonderful now and always; I am in harmony with the flow of life;
My life is harmonious and ideal for me and is constantly improving;
The experience of my life is constantly improving;
All my best dreams come true;
I know my calling and my career is thriving.
KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM
I am calm and relaxed;
I always make the right decisions;
My intuition is great;
I always find a way out of all life situations;
I trust the Higher Knowledge, which is always with me, and therefore I always make the right decisions;
My knowledge is growing every day.
FAMILY
All members of my family give me great joy;
Joy and happiness reign in my family;
I am calm, happy and at peace with my family and the entire Universe;
All members of my family are always protected, healthy and happy;
My family is a source of love and self-confidence.
HEALTH
My health is excellent;
With every passing day, my life expectancy increases;
I am in harmony and peace with the Universe;
I am very sexy and beautiful.
My strength and self-confidence are constantly growing;
Every day I become sexier and more beautiful.
I'm getting younger every day;
Enjoying health and joy in life strengthens my self-confidence;
I am ready to accept joy and happy surprises every day.
- The statement must be formulated as a fact, and in the present tense.
- Use only positive words and avoid negative statements.
- The affirmation should be brief and at the same time bright and figurative. Avoid vague concepts.
- At the end of the affirmations, you can add “I get much more than I expect.”
- An affirmation must not have a negative. Denial creates nothing. It follows from this that it does not provide the subconscious with information about the development of any attitude. Denial is not perceived at all on a subconscious level.
PS: If you don’t believe in the power of affirmations (words and thoughts), then you’ll just stay the same)
If you tried and nothing worked, then this means that the negative program that rules you is very strong and you had to work more on yourself!
All this works and gives results - tested from my own experience!
ARTICLES
He who is not happy with what he has will not be happy with what he wants.
The most common misconception when assessing your capabilities
When discussing this topic, people mistakenly believe that you need to initially have connections, special talent, education, money or extraordinary skills. Then they will be able to do what they want, become what they dreamed of becoming, sleep until lunch, in a word, they will be happy.
Many also believe that success is the result of a favorable combination of circumstances, luck, or luck. It seems to us that we need certain external components that will lead us to Success and a state of happiness.
Most of us think like this: “First I’ll earn a lot of money, then I’ll take care of my health, personal and spiritual growth and I will be happy...”. Actually, this is what society teaches us.
One Eastern parable says about this:
“Money can buy a bed, but not sleep; food, but no appetite; medicines, but not health; servants, but not friends; women, but not love; home, but not home; entertainment, but not joy; education, but not intelligence."
In fact For most people this formula... doesn't work.. “I swear, if people began to mistake happiness for money, and money for happiness, then no one will ever receive the Golden Key,” said the wise turtle Tortila.
The truth is that you may or may not earn money, but you can lose your health once and for all. What kind of happiness can we talk about then?
Moving along this path, even achieving certain results in the material sphere, you will constantly find yourself faced with new needs and be in a constant search for happiness, each time setting yourself new conditions for finding it. The list of these conditions can be endless. In pursuit of new symbols of happiness, you feel like you are on an endless treadmill.
As John Lennon sang, “You keep making plans for life, but it’s already underway.”
It's like a never-ending chase for tomorrow. The next acquisition initiates the desire for a new acquisition.
How much someone needs to be happy, everyone decides for themselves. The outstanding philosopher of the 18th century Grigory Skovoroda spoke about a fountain surrounded by people with various vessels in their hands: But “The main thing is that everyone is full of being.”
There's nothing wrong with wanting more; the main thing is to avoid attachment and dependence on the desire for more. It must be remembered that as soon as your ego falls in love with material goods, your happiness from you goes into them, you identify yourself with them, and your growth and development stops. There is no need to covet money and things, you just need to use them - use them, admire them, experience pleasure. The main thing is not to look for yourself in them! You are much more than your ego assures you, which drags literally everything into its treasury of identifications - from things to opinions about yourself. Otherwise, you will be doomed to spend your whole life collecting this endless pile of trinkets, which will completely close you off from your true “I” and the correct understanding of the level of “Being”.
To realize the futility of this process, you don’t have to wait for the moment when there are 5 minutes left before the “closing of the curtain”... This is a question of the balance of material and spiritual, where contradictions are not at all necessary, since both are two sides of the same coin. But everything real, material, is created from the spiritual, and the spiritual is primary.
Of course, every person, in the process of his comprehensive development, must also develop the material side of his existence. Without a certain amount of money, you will not be able to experience the fullness of life, this is undeniable. Gandhi said: “There are people in this world who are so hungry that they cannot see God in anything but bread.”
Awareness of the value of the current moment, gratitude for it - this is the main principle of attracting what you want into your life.
Socrates said: “He who is not content with what he has will not be content with what he wants.”
“Many, having accumulated wealth, found not an end to their troubles, but other troubles.”(Epicurus) .
Sophia Loren once said: “The two great advantages I received at birth were that I was born smart and born into poverty...”. Paradoxically, this great actress considered poverty at the beginning of her life to be a good gift, and wealth at birth to be the most difficult test for a person.
The famous oligarch Vladimir Potanin adds: “A million inherited allows a person to get a good education, get a job calmly, without haste, and realize himself. The billion transferred kills him, deprives him of the meaning of life.”.
Vladimir Korotkevich, a Belarusian writer, author of many historical novels, said that previously the sons of rich parents, until the age of 12, were raised in the poor families of their peasants, then they took them away and informed the boy that he was a rich heir. As a result, by this time my son had managed to acquire the necessary knowledge and skills, as well as a healthy idea of life.
“Wealth - health - happiness”... Why not the other way around: start with a feeling of happiness right “here and now”, with taking care of your health, and consistently begin to move towards well-being? After all, in order to become happy, to feel happiness simply and without preconditions, there is no need to wait for something. After all, happiness can only be felt in the present time!
Pythagoras also said that those who know how to live in the present can be happy.
And the famous expert in high performance psychology Jim Loehr adds - “Money won’t buy you happiness, but happiness will help you become richer.”.
So where does it all begin? In fact “Be - Do - Have” - this is the correct sequence in realizing your dreams.
- First you focus on who you are and who you should be in relation to your purpose;
- then on what you think, feel and how you act;
- and only then – what will you get as a result.
Level "Be" means to be at peace with yourself, a balanced internal state. This sequence gives you natural inner integrity and harmonious structure. That's why: “Be – Do – Own!”.
Goethe wrote: “To get more, you must first become more.”. After all, you are not the things you have, and not even what you do and what you do, and not what others think about you. You are the qualities and states that are inside you. The Bible says: “What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and destroy himself?”
We think of ourselves as if we are our cars, things, work, titles, environment, salary, regalia, diplomas, reputation, etc. To the question “Who are you?” We most often define ourselves by what we do or what we have.
But if you are what you have, then if it is taken away from you, then you are gone? Nowadays this is done easily, and you yourself know many examples of this. “Today is Caesar, tomorrow is nothing,” said Virgil. For this reason, when the global crisis broke out, many bankrupt businessmen took their own lives. Their belief system was that they were their business. Having lost him, they thought that they had lost everything and did not see the meaning of their existence.
“True wealth is not what you have, it is what you are left with when you lose everything you had,”- says James Ray.
Your inner world is the only thing that truly belongs to you. Your inner qualities are the main value that no one can ever take away from you. What you have in your soul will remain with you forever and will serve as a reliable foundation at any time.
Even in the face of incredible losses and the most difficult landings, who you are will allow you to recover and return to an even higher level again, because sustainable growth will always come from the inside out. That's why, The first component of Success is you! It is from the level of “Be” that your ascent begins.
Enel Charles, the founder of New Thinking in his famous book “The Master Key System” writes: “We must be before we do, and we can only do to the extent that we are, and therefore everything we do coincides with what we are, and what we are depends on what what we think."
Mahatma Gandhi said: “Be the change you want to see in the world.”
Before setting any external goals, you need to achieve the main internal goal. This means that you need to develop qualities in yourself that will move you towards your ideal. The beginning of your transformation is the beginning of observing and analyzing your mental and behavioral habits, because they determine the quality of your life.
James Ray in his book Harmonious Wealth writes: “If you decide to become a millionaire, then decide not for the green pieces of paper, but for the sake of who you have to become to get there.”
Remember that everything first arises in thoughts and then manifests itself in reality. “A new life is just a new way of thinking.”
And in order to teach your brain new thinking, it, just like your body, needs to be exercised. This particular process will involve working with your habits, habits at the level of actions and at the level of thoughts. But you must do it yourself; no one will do this “physical exercise” for you. published
Our life is based on desires. They, like fuel, constantly feed us, like coal in the butt of a steam locomotive - they ignite in us the ability to move on, to go forward. Therefore, it is simply vital for us to achieve what we really want. Then we ask ourselves: how can we still attract into our lives the happiness that we picture in our dreams?
The Internet is now replete with various tips and practices, especially from the esoteric sphere. Buddhist practices and meditations have also become very popular, which help us achieve the desired result through calming and even pacifying our overly active desires.
The first thing that can be taken away from the totality of advice is the definition of a goal or desire. It should be formed first of all in your head/heart (as you wish) as clearly as possible. Higher powers, the universe or God will not hear fuzzy, vague desires. You need to understand for yourself what you want. Here, of course, the rational aspect will also work: when you are clearly aware of your goal, you will be able to achieve it, because your consciousness will be able to pave the whole path to achieving your goal. It is advisable to justify the desire as if you have already achieved it. As if in the present time you are already happy, healthy, rich and loved. Now you have already received it - experience the sphere of emotions that the acquisition of your cherished gives you. Feel in detail every moment, every thread that goes from your heart to the center of your imaginary desire. Imagine holding a huge amount of money or jewelry in your hands. like holding the hand of any person, feel how warm and cozy you are. Such practices, combined with pragmatic real actions, will not be superfluous. Let's be clear: when you want something, you must have the drive to make it happen. It doesn’t matter whether you are an atheist or an avid Orthodox Christian, a Buddhist or an agnostic - what sets you on fire from the inside and what gives you incentive is valuable. Therefore, do not pay attention to social reviews about all religious movements and esoteric practices - your task is to obtain an inner fire that will give you the strength to move and overcome mountains.
After you have formalized your desire and felt it, you need to let it go. Forget for a while about what you so passionately desire. This will not be easy, thoughts will swarm in your head again and again, however, such a step is necessary. Imagine that you want to erase a mistake you made with a pencil, for example. You rub and rub so hard that you make a hole. A hole in your mind and feelings is of no use to you. Therefore, free yourself from the bonds of what you want (and every Buddhist knows what every desire is fraught with) and live a wonderful, inspired life. Before you can blink your eye, you will see the results of your fulfilled desire, and all because you believed.
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Everyone wants to be a magnet, attracting pleasant events to themselves, but everyone is already a magnet, attracting to themselves what sticks.
Most of the population begins to think about this when they get stuck like a fly in a sticky trap, and when they try to take off, their wings come off.
Women think about their “wrong magnetism” when they get into a relationship with the “wrong man”, men come to thoughts: “something is wrong here” when they fail to earn money, and all patients in their hours of suffering leave the prayers “God, What did I do to deserve this?
So, everyone attracts something. It’s not always what’s pleasant now. But if you look in depth, they attract either life, or through death, new life. That is, they either create their Self right here and now, or destroy what is now interfering with the new Self.
Whether we like it or not, we serve Life. Perhaps not even your own. For example, the lives of worms.
The moral is obvious: people are magnetic creatures.
And in order to be able to attract not only negativity, but also what they want with their minds, they need to know a few rules:
1. We attract events not with thoughts, but with emotional states emitted into the world.For example, when we radiate joy, we attract other people to it, who unconsciously perceive it as an excess of energy. Experiencing need in any manifestation (lack of money, loneliness, illness), we demonstrate to others the intention to feed on their energy, from which they unconsciously choose to distance themselves from the additional leakage of energy.
2. Events in response to our emotional reaction are not attracted immediately, but with a delay.
There is a deadline between what was planned and its implementation in reality - a delay of 40 days. What happens to us is what we planted in ourselves (experienced the feeling) 40 days ago. Therefore, we often do not see the connection between cause and effect. But there is a connection nonetheless. It is important to remember: everything that is sown will germinate. This leads to the third rule.
3. To be in a positive state and radiate it outward, you need to reprogram your past. Moreover, the earlier past influences subsequent events. For example, the negative experience of school years is already programmed by the emotions experienced in the infancy period. And an infant is shaped by the emotions of his parents.
Reprogramming the past changes neural connections in the brain and a person’s hormonal levels.
There are many practices for reprogramming the past, and I consider the Individual Arrangement technique to be one of the most powerful, where there is no distortion on the part of the group or the leader.
The goal of reprogramming the past is to create a stable perception of such a life experience in which the individual feels (that is, generates into the world) loved, desired, strong and significant. Constantly radiating such a sense of self is a guarantee of the constant attraction of favorable events.
4. There should be no pause in the form of waiting between feeling (generating) and the onset of the desired event.
Waiting is also an emotional state, meaning suffering in a hidden form. Waiting means that the person is currently unhappy. He is planting the seeds of suffering right now that will sprout in 40 days. Therefore, they say that waiting for the result ruins the result. In this case, it is necessary to reveal the true reason hidden in the past.
5. Letting go of expectations and enjoying the current moment is the main ability of people with the Victorious Life Scenario, where a person sets goals, but goes to them not to obtain happiness, but from states of happiness and POWER.
Letting go of expectations is possible only on the condition that a person lives not from the state of “I WANT TO RECEIVE”, but from the state of “I WANT TO GIVE”. The giver is guaranteed to receive.
6. Giving must be appropriate.
You cannot give what is not asked for and by force. The one who wants to give first finds out what the other person needs, and only then helps him independently reach his goals.
Respect for the path of another, despite the difficulties of the one walking, returns respect to the giver.
7. Having filled the time with giving, there will be no time to wait and suffer. After 40 days, what was given will begin to return and reinforce the correctly laid path - the Path of the Winner - of the magnetic personality.
